Safety, consent and respect for a partner are the basic principles in any intimate relationship, including BDSM. Here are a few ideas that you can try, but remember that communication, clear agreement and attention to the boundaries of the partner are always important:
- Easy flirting and domination. Use verbal tackles to create the atmosphere of the game. This is true even for married couples who have been in a relationship for a long time.
- Gentle binding. Use silk ribbons or soft ropes for easy bindings. This is suitable for beginners who are just starting to get acquainted with the subject of BDSM.
- Light slaps. Use your palm for light spanking or special accessories (leather strap spanking) for BDSM.
- Submission and control. Try the elements of subordination and commands, but always taking into account the comfort level of the partner. First clarify the personal boundaries of the partner and build a game plan based on this.
- Role-playing games. Create a scenario where each of you plays a certain role. Use leather thigh cuffs as an accessory that will help you create the most realistic scenario.
- The use of a gag. This can add an element of control and intrigue to your sex life. We recommend paying attention not only to the gag, but also to the leather bondage set, which will help complement the overall image.
- Massage with elements of BDSM. Use oils and light bonding to create a sensual experience.
- Experiments with temperature. Use ice and warm objects for a variety of tactile sensations. A lot of people like experimenting with temperature, because it allows you to get inexpressible emotions.
- A light fetish. Talk about fantasies and preferences related to clothes or objects. Describe to your partner your personal preferences regarding how you want to look during sexual activity.
It is important to remember that all types of BDSM should be carried out only with the consent of all participants, be safe and lead to a positive experience for both parties. Violence should be avoided and the boundaries of the partner should be respected. If there are uncertainties or questions, be sure to discuss them with your partner.
How to offer a BDSM partner
The proposal to include elements of BDSM in your intimate relationship requires a special subtle and attentive approach. Here are a few steps that can help you do this and convince your partner:
- Discussing fantasies. Start by discussing your fantasies and desires. Share your thoughts about what turns you on.
- Assessment of interests. Find out how your partner feels about the idea of incorporating BDSM elements. You can ask if they have heard of such practices or have any experience.
- A gradual approach. If your partner is interested, suggest the gradual introduction of new elements. Focus on what can be comfortable for both.
Instead of mentioning BDSM in general right away, you can start with the specific elements that interest you. For example, bondage, light games with role-playing characters, or using gloves for massage.